When I first entered the college life, it was not all that I expected, rather it was all I never expected. I came to realize things, about which I was just hearing about and never took that serious.
Now After I took charge by myself, every thing was not that easy but being “
More than Mature in my Age”, may be the title of my coming publication, I did not find it that hard, especially the starting days, being alone in the crowd is the worst thing that one can feel, I learnt a very important chapter from these episodes of my life, to get attested by the society you need to be an Ambivert (Partially introvert and partially extrovert).
I did see people suffering from feeling of nostalgia, by the way I’m not a superman, I was also the one. It is the college life where you actually understand the best What competition is?, but far apart from all this you understand why you get attracted to opposite sex, but still wear a persona that we are all apart from all this friends and are willing to live an ascetic life. Isn’t it?.
Few Webisodes of my college life:
In general these episodes show what makes college life indispensable,so don't try to follow Mark Zukerburg, enjoy college get secure and then be better than Dear mark.
Types of Interactions that usually happen, BTW if computed correctly these interactions can play severe actions in your life.
What to say and what not to say, But as you don’t have any choice in the present so being in present, I’ll try discuss everything, considering that I don’t have any choices right now.
Known interactions that happen are the ones with seniors, batchmates, Hostlers and with few others that play a genuine role in your day to day life, mess workers, Canteen holders, guards.
Interaction With seniors.
During the time of our fresher, I was in a state hibernation, but when my seniors approached me with their virtual AK-47, the most common in India, I realized that I’ve to do what they wanted, at the very first I was like, what the hell is happening in my life, not because of my seniors but ‘coz of the chief minister of the state, for her orders we were to suffer from what we did during the time I was in first standard,
Making of queue to reach to the lecture rooms.
Due to my interest in anchoring after seeing “Indian Idol”, I participated in Compering, the Day I first reached towards my seniors, I was literally gone, one of my seniors asked me where are your clothes, not being in touch with the tradition of formal dressing, I was a bit confused with such a question and thought that Is he commenting on my way of dressing and was ready to create a kind of moot there at but again they are my seniors and I have to respect them, many deserved respect, few snatched.
Then comes the interactions with hostlers and batchmates, at the starting you may or may not feel uncomfortable, but with the passage of time after you talk and share to many about your views, you are able to find a friend, whom you think will be there for you forever (atleast for four years of your graduation), but sometimes nothing happens to your expectations and the days of frustration begins, And thoughts like Why I’m here, I’m alone, Has god not made one for me?. suddenly you realize it was all momentary, again everything reaches its Zenith of being fine.
By the way I’m the one whose knees get weaken when he sees the opposite sex, but it didn’t happened this time with me, And I was tagged with names like Shri Shree Ravishankar, which is quite unfortunate, because I don’t want myself to get compared with the greatest of all humans present on Earth, and also few other nick names like shasha, triple nips(secret!!). But then being a man with testosterone working properly I was also involved in discussion boards that used to happen about them, By the way Are there any discussion about us?.
Academic phobia.
Each day I decided to work hard for the future, but fail to do so, and ultimately the very last night is the shortest of all the nights in an year. Obviously we are the ones who are smarter than from whom we learn but only virtually, the proof of which is very simple, the course that they take to complete is three-four months and what we complete in a single night. But after you come in contact with few of your seniors, you get inspired for a day or two and then again everything processes as usual. I was actually inspired by many of my seniors, and few sophomores, the way they presented themselves and taught us about professionalism.
Till now what I learnt.
In college you mostly learn from interactions and probably best with seniors because they actually are better than us in many ways, I have a aim of becoming a complete web designer, though I started a bit late, but after I have entered the life at BIET, I’m sure that I’ll learn and teach a lot as a part of tradition.
Let me share with you a free Advice, stay away from grouping and “Realpolitiks”, because success is a race between you and yourself.
Now after all you all know a lot about my college life, comment me so that I can understand was it the same in your case, or partially different or completely different.
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